If you stick around through the end of some Goshen women's volleyball matches, you'll surely notice a common thread among them all. After the final point is played, whether it goes the way of the Maple Leafs or not, Goshen sophomore setter Kelsie Hankins will recognize her teammates briefly and then turn to go toward the head official and give them a handshake before joining the team in line to recognize the opposing team. For Hankins, it is a habit that goes back to her sophomore year in high school, and it provides a small glimpse into the character of the Avon, Indiana native.
The Start of a Tradition
Growing up, Hankins wanted to be just like her older cousin Alayna. She was the only girl in the family, so she looked up to her. Since Alayna played volleyball, Hankins wanted to try the sport. She started in sixth grade, only expecting to try it out. However, she made the club team and has played ever since.
When she was a sophomore in high school, Hankins' club team made it to nationals in Las Vegas. One referee she had seen at other tournaments was there. "He was really nice—he always joked with the players," said Hankins. “And I don't remember why I did it, but I just ran up and gave him a fist bump after a game once, thinking it would be the last time I'd see him since it was nationals."
However, the next day, he officiated a couple more of their matches. And Hankins kept giving him fist bumps after each match. By then, it was a habit that she continued every match, regardless of who the official was. She mentioned how it helps her get to know the officials, and a couple have also helped her get certified as a referee. Most importantly, however, Hankins has recognized the diminishing value of sportsmanship on the court, on the sidelines, and in the stands. Her simple action at the end of a match allows her to control what she can control.
"There's no way to prevent other people from saying and doing things they shouldn't, so I do it because it's an easy way to show appreciation for the officials' time and their effort and willingness to come ref for us," she shared. "Being sportsmanlike is the right and biblical thing to do."
Goshen head coach Jeff Phillips and assistant coach Brianna Foster noticed the handshake when they watched Hankins play club volleyball. "We noticed how she handled her overall attitude," Phillips said. "We watched her win and lose in club volleyball, and every time, she would go up to the officials and shake hands. It is a good reminder for her to maintain her perspective and keep her priorities in line."